Many people who come to live in the UK face the challenge of housing, especially when it comes to purchasing detached houses, semi-detached houses, or terrace houses. It can indeed be a learning experience. You might find a house with a stunning exterior and beautiful interior decorations, seemingly without any issues, making you want to buy it immediately. However, after a professional inspection, structural problems may be revealed, showing that the property isn’t suitable for purchase.
Even if you buy a house that passes all inspections, issues may start to surface after some time. For instance, in cold weather, the boiler might break down, pipes could leak or burst, and windows and doors might let in draughts, preventing the house from retaining heat. During heavy rain, the roof might leak, walls might become damp, and severe mould might develop on the walls. These problems are experienced by many, whether the property is an old building or a new one. Such issues might have been present for a long time but only become apparent under certain conditions, compelling us to confront and address them.
People, in many ways, are like houses. They may present themselves as having no issues, appearing as refined and elegant as a detached house, especially for Christians who strive to live in the likeness of Christ. However, their true selves might face numerous internal issues. Certain situations can trigger emotions that cause these problems to surface, much like a dam developing a crack. If not promptly addressed, the water will burst forth uncontrollably. Thus, it is essential to face our inner selves and organise our emotions and wounds.
Often, we quickly move to the next step to solve problems—replacing a broken boiler or repairing a leaking roof. However, human emotions and wounds are more complex and difficult to deal with than the problems a house might face. Human beings are living, spiritual entities, requiring time to process and address their emotions and wounds, engaging in an internal dialogue with themselves.
There are various ways to help us manage and confront our emotions and wounds. Prayer and spiritual devotions are fundamental and essential. Through prayer, we can ask God to reveal our weaknesses, face our emotions, and honestly share our experiences and vulnerabilities with Him. Additionally, seeking the support of a Christian counsellor, a spiritual guide, a pastor, or a spiritual companion can be beneficial for sharing and mutual support.
Due to the limited space of this pastoral sharing, I might share more about emotions and spiritual practices in the future. I hope this brief article will encourage readers to face their inner emotions and wounds, allowing God to guide you through difficulties step by step until you see the light.
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
Rev. Louis Yeung